Love....A Feel Undefined

Love and Love is all around today and I would like to start with a short story.

Once there was a Princess, so beautiful, full of life and love like any other princess of fairy tales. She used to play with flowers, butterflies and birds. In beautiful sunshine she used to feed birds with her own hands as mesmerized with the beauty of their own, birds were her first love. Birds from all around the world, gorgeous and a delight to watch, few with wonderful wings, few with smoothest flights, few who touch the heights, few with beautiful singing and few blessed with perhaps every color our nature have, used to fly to her garden to get fed from her once.

One season of spring, a bird came with his flock. He was a bird to watch, a bird to love. Blessed with best of features of all other species he had an absolute glory and effortless style in singing, flights and colors he was possessed with. Princess fell in love with him straightaway like anyone else would have. She started playing with that bird only. She started waiting for him to come anxiously every season and when he use to come her happiness could be sensed in the winds. She just loved seeing him flying, singing, displaying so many colors and playing with her. She Fell in Love with Him.

Few seasons passed and now she wanted him to be with her always. So she got him caught and built a beautiful cage made of gold filled with diamonds. She was extremely happy now as she could see her love everytime she wish, play with him, feed him with her own hands and watch him. But sadness started to fill in that bird's heart as now he couldn't fly at his will, couldn't sing in happiness, couldn’t spread his wings in free flowing wind, and couldn’t nourish his colors in the sunlight. Slowly all his glories faded away. Princess too started ignoring him now as she don't feel the way she use to feel with him before. That bird fell ill soon and died one day.

Love...a feel beyond definitions. Love taking different forms the way we need them, the way we want them, the way we are convenient with. So is there any real form of love? Is there any pure love? Is there any true love/ If yes, then what defines it?

We love someone and want him or her to stay with us always. Why that obligation and why those conditions.

We love someone and want him or her to love us the way we do. Why that exchange if that is love and not business.

We love someone and want him or her to be like we want them to be. Why that desire to make our loved one that bird of the story.

Why Love is not to just Love. Why Love is not like surrendering ourselves for the happiness of others and it has become a feel to feed our happiness only. Why our happiness is not about seeing our loved ones happy.

So simple, Our love is not Detached and Selfless.

Some way or another, our love feed our own sense gratification first. Can We Let Our Love Go If He or She start feeling Happier with someone else or their happiness lies somewhere else. Or can we make it easier for him or her to go for their happiness if we know we can't even imagine our life without them being around. Can You Make it Easier for them to Go, If you Know Their Happiness lies somewhere else even though Your lies in them.

Detach yourself. Make that feel selfless. Your happiness will be much more now. Your happiness will be Pure now.

Yes, it hurts sometime, but that False Pain must not Stop me to Love True.

Stay Happy Stay Blessed. 

Simply Arsh