Sunday, May 11, 2014

Pride and Tragedy of being Aam Aadmi Party (AAP)

No one expected that they would come that far when they accepted a challenge from established political leaders full of arrogance and power to fight elections and that too from heart of India, Delhi. Everyone from political analysts to ever debating journalists kept them on sidelines till the time they could. Questions ranging from funds required to fight elections, issues and vision to run a government, ability to turn sentiments into votes to finding right candidates for seventy constituencies kept arising and they kept dealing with one by one in their own style of truth and honesty. They were Aam Aadmi Party or in simple worlds AAP.


If they became first to show details of all the funds received on their websites, they also became first to stop its followers for further donations. They were first to form different manifestos for all the constituencies in consultation with the people. Their campaigning on roads of delhi, on social media, or asking people from all India to call the people of delhi to vote for AAP was all a work of brilliant team work. While they were busy twenty four hours building their credibility in the heart of common man, politicians around were busy criticizing them wholeheartedly in their traditional Illogical way and ever debating TV journalists along with political analysts were trying their best not to give ears to that noise of change and showing it in true colors. Where AAP spokesperson kept replying every illogical statement of other parties’ spokespersons, their volunteers from across the country and abroad kept coming forward in their support.

On the day of final verdict, people of delhi gave a historic judgment and AAP emerged as second largest party winning 28 seats with BJP the largest one winning 32 seats leaving the ruling congress in single digit number of 8 seats. But what followed that historic and miraculous result left a sour taste what could have been the sweetest sight for democracy. First almost all applaud AAP’s efforts which resulted in a magic win and few who were doubtful of their successfully fighting of elections started their second round of doubts on their skills of running government now and after that started the actual politics.

But what was disheartening to see for those who were expecting a new start in Indian politics, was perhaps AAP’s slow fall into a trap made of their own ideological words and a start of showing traits of whom they were fighting against. Arrogant has started showing up. Logics behind arguments have started fading away. Criticism has changed its target from ideology to party. Too much idealism seems to diverting solutions away.

BJP refused to form a Govt as they were short of numbers and there wasn’t any feasibility to get support from either of Congress or AAP. But this time AAP gave an illogical statement asking BJP if they won’t form a Govt at center if they will be short of 272. There will be obvious options to get support from so many regional parties at center and who will engage in horsetrading or buy MLA’s as per AAP’s statement, when everyone is watching them in Delhi.

Then an unconditional support (A support to complete numbers and letting government execute their agendas) came for AAP from congress and again a statement from AAP that they will stick to their prepoll stand about all others being thieves and neither they will accept any support nor will lend theirs. On one side AAP had said they were ready to dissolve their party and will not fight elections if Congress pass their five major agendas including Jan Lokpal bill, right to reject and right to recall on other side if congress is giving full support they are refusing to form the government. Even if congress in future doesn’t support them in passing the said bills, AAP can easily dissolve assembly and in that case at the time of re-election who knows eight congress may go to AAP making them a party with full majority.

Then came support from BJP as well who will be sitting in opposition in case AAP form a government with congress, which is a bonus if we see an opposition giving a constructive support to a party which is going to govern.

But AAP came this time with eighteen conditions which includes bills they want to pass and other actions they want to take for the betterment of Delhi. If the party who is giving unconditional support or the one with constructive support oppose for the bills in the assembly,  they can dissolve the assembly and do a better campaign for majority in elections. For other agendas in the list of conditions, they do not need any support from the assembly, infact these are decision to be taken by CM or his cabinet.

Perhaps its long campaign of AAP projecting both BJP and Congress corrupt as a whole which is halting their further thought process. Originally they were against bad practices in the politics by both the major parties but now they are against parties itself even if they are bending themselves for the larger interest of the state. Even if it is not the real interest, it is avoiding elections for the time being and will show their true colors if they will not allow AAP to function or pass the bills in assembly. But neither congress look fool enough that after losing in four states they will cause any kind of hindrance in the process of good governance by AAP nor BJP look unaware of news hungry media or open eyed public that they will risk their national interest by causing any troubles to AAP. If it delhi comes to elections again because of non co-operation from either of congress or BJP, AAP will be an obvious gainer.

In the recent developments in the case of Jan Lokpal Bill where Anna Hazare is satisfied with Lokpall bill proposed by select committee but considered weak by AAP and as per AAP’s statement, once a teacher and mentor Anna Hazare seems to be misguided by opposition. Its strange to think a mentor who didn’t get convinced by his team members to be with them for their election efforts can be misguided by political parties he was fighting against.

BJP in its statement has highlighted a couple of clauses amended by congress in select committee’s recommendations and same AAP is crying about. But instead of coming along and getting that portion strong, they are refusing whole bill terming it as Jokepal.

Calling anything against ownself a conspiracy, terming all others bad and ownself clean, not coming along with oppositions even for the national interest are few traits of traditional Indian politics these days and AAP seems to follow the same footsteps now as they want re-elections in delhi and force common man to shift sides this time. But in the whole process, it is hope of Aam Aadmi that’s getting deluted once again. That common man still don’t know when the sun will rise.
SimplyArsh

Love....A Feel Undefined

Love and Love is all around today and I would like to start with a short story.

Once there was a Princess, so beautiful, full of life and love like any other princess of fairy tales. She used to play with flowers, butterflies and birds. In beautiful sunshine she used to feed birds with her own hands as mesmerized with the beauty of their own, birds were her first love. Birds from all around the world, gorgeous and a delight to watch, few with wonderful wings, few with smoothest flights, few who touch the heights, few with beautiful singing and few blessed with perhaps every color our nature have, used to fly to her garden to get fed from her once.

One season of spring, a bird came with his flock. He was a bird to watch, a bird to love. Blessed with best of features of all other species he had an absolute glory and effortless style in singing, flights and colors he was possessed with. Princess fell in love with him straightaway like anyone else would have. She started playing with that bird only. She started waiting for him to come anxiously every season and when he use to come her happiness could be sensed in the winds. She just loved seeing him flying, singing, displaying so many colors and playing with her. She Fell in Love with Him.

Few seasons passed and now she wanted him to be with her always. So she got him caught and built a beautiful cage made of gold filled with diamonds. She was extremely happy now as she could see her love everytime she wish, play with him, feed him with her own hands and watch him. But sadness started to fill in that bird's heart as now he couldn't fly at his will, couldn't sing in happiness, couldn’t spread his wings in free flowing wind, and couldn’t nourish his colors in the sunlight. Slowly all his glories faded away. Princess too started ignoring him now as she don't feel the way she use to feel with him before. That bird fell ill soon and died one day.

Love...a feel beyond definitions. Love taking different forms the way we need them, the way we want them, the way we are convenient with. So is there any real form of love? Is there any pure love? Is there any true love/ If yes, then what defines it?

We love someone and want him or her to stay with us always. Why that obligation and why those conditions.

We love someone and want him or her to love us the way we do. Why that exchange if that is love and not business.

We love someone and want him or her to be like we want them to be. Why that desire to make our loved one that bird of the story.

Why Love is not to just Love. Why Love is not like surrendering ourselves for the happiness of others and it has become a feel to feed our happiness only. Why our happiness is not about seeing our loved ones happy.

So simple, Our love is not Detached and Selfless.

Some way or another, our love feed our own sense gratification first. Can We Let Our Love Go If He or She start feeling Happier with someone else or their happiness lies somewhere else. Or can we make it easier for him or her to go for their happiness if we know we can't even imagine our life without them being around. Can You Make it Easier for them to Go, If you Know Their Happiness lies somewhere else even though Your lies in them.

Detach yourself. Make that feel selfless. Your happiness will be much more now. Your happiness will be Pure now.

Yes, it hurts sometime, but that False Pain must not Stop me to Love True.

Stay Happy Stay Blessed. 

Why I Love A Woman....

When I say, I love my Mom, I love a Woman. When I say, I love my Wife, I love a Woman. When I Say, I love my sister, I love a Woman. When I say, I love my daughter, I love a Woman.

How can I hold anything other than just Love for  woman, in my heart, if I know it’s her feminine X that make me a complete XY male genetically.

If I know, it’s her unconditional love and care which made me feel secure and confident since my childhood and taught me to love unconditionally. If I know, it’s her being mischievous made me responsible when I grew up fighting with her and taught me to be naughty and playful at times. If I know, it’s her companionship, which made me mentally strong enough to succeed the journey of life and taught me to be a true companion. If I know, it’s angelic look of her eyes and the way she used to hold my index finger with her tiny soft hand, which made me feel I am a superhero and taught me to have faith blindly.

How can I hold anything other than just Love for a woman, in my heart, If I know I hold a bit of her in every bit of me.

Her day starts with taking care of her father, wishing good day to her brother, getting her kid ready for school, preparing breakfast and assembling her husband’s stuff. Her day grows in office taking notes of head office guidelines, dealing with stubborn boss and envy colleagues, handling work pressure amidst the office politics and still leaving the office with a smile on her face. Her day ends with ensuring everything is perfectly fine at its place.

My day today started with wishing all the beautiful women in my life a very happy Women’s day. My day grew up then reading about so many rape news on a single page in a single city, self help women group teaching in villages, most successful women in every field of society, women protesting for their rights as well as for others, discussing same with my colleagues and showing concern, sharing few laughs with my males and females colleagues with whom I share a good bond and ignoring others and leaving the office with weekend plans in mind. My day ended listening my mother’s as usual complaint about not eating properly, daughter’s complaint about not coming home earlier and wife’s complaint of her being getting so tired every day, but I wonder how she still manage to give a warm hug and a sweet smile even then.

Oh dear woman, thank you so much for being with me and believe me, Everyday I try my level best to make you smile. Dear mom, Everyday I try to take you to temple though I fail to give you enough time. Dear friend, Everyday I try to keep you away from office pressure, share your work and making sure you leave home early to take care of your family or stay with you and walk along if you are left alone working late in the office. But I know I too behave indifferent sometimes. Dear Sister, Everyday I try to make you believe in yourself and be an Independent and successful girl though I feel jealous for mom and dad being more affectionate to you. Dear daughter, Everyday I try to take care of you my little angel, though I make you feel that I am being protective and fail to realize you have grown up now. Dear wife, Everyday I try to help you in everything you do, though I fail to take some burden off from your shoulders.

Oh beautiful woman of my life, On this day, I promise I will try again and again and again to make your life easier and this world a better place for you to live. After all it’s not only today, everyday is your day, everyday is a women’s day.

Simply Arsh

When to Decide to End a Relationship.

When to Decide to End a Relationship.



In reply to a thread When to decide to end marriage? (http://www.speakingtree.in/public/spiritual-forums/wellness /when-to-decide-to-end-marriage)...by The seeker of the truth (http://www.speakingtree.in/public/sarita.chaubey)

Dear

Its not only about marriage, in every relationship, there are two things to consider. First the strength of the relationship and second the problems you encounter while being into that relationship.
First-The strength...We all as a human being, have needs. These needs can be categorised into Physical needs, mental needs, emotional needs, social needs, needs of subconscious mind and needs of unconscious mind. More a person fulfill our needs, stronger the bond we share with that person. That bond itself describes the love we have for that person. We don't even know that our so many needs are being fulfilled by that person. Once that relationship of needs fulfillment establishes, we consider ourselves in a relationship with that person with whatever name. Slowly courtesy, concern and care comes along with that bond. So more the needs are fulfilled, stronger we are attached with that person. (There is a lot more to say and discuss about it but lets keep it short and in context to your thread).
Second-Problems. ..When we start facing problems in our relationships, it depends what we consider the bigger one, Problems or the Bond we share. When the problems plays a bigger role than the Bond of love (needs fulfillment, courtesy concern and care) , relationship start deteriorating day by day. And comes to an end one day when we are left with without any fulfillment f needs, At that time we still want to be that person because of Courtesy, concern and care but that too elopes if other one don't feel the same.
So a relationship ends when there are Problems much bigger than the bond once we shared, end of further fulfillment f needs, end of a feel of courtesy, concern and care. in response to your thread, when to decide to end a marriage, one more thing need to be addressed and that is Responsibility. A number of things need to be thought of under that matter. Who else is getting affected...
Keep the bond stronger and bigger than the problems, one will never think of ending a relationship...

Stay Happy....Stay Blessed.

Simply Arsh

Wednesday, March 27, 2013

The Historic Win....The Brownwash

Throwing his wicket away playing silly shots, Dhoni opened the great Tail of India in both the Innings of first Test against England, and that defeat in first match which could have resulted in atleast a draw otherwise, began a losing streak of eight tests in a row by India. And a fearless but sensible Double hundred by Dhoni pawed the way to historic 4-0 so called brownwash of Australia at home this time.

How appeasing it is to watch India playing in whites, only an Indian cricket fan can understand and how pleasant it is to watch them winning one can just imagine.

Experts will keep saying, it was a home advantage(Who don’t have), Tailormade wickets (Who don’t make wickets as per the strength of the teams), They were without Ponting and Hussey (we were without Dravid and Laxman, leave aside out of form Sehwag, Gambhir, Harbhajan or Injured Zaheer), It was an Inexperienced Aussie team( Except Sachin, MSD and Ishant all were Inexperienced in our side as well and it was more or less same team that defeated India four nil) and a bad wicket to play Test cricket at Delhi(MSD answered them well at Press conference), but We had witnessed a dramatic change in the way our team played from 22-Feb to 24-March.

It was clearly evidenced by Indian players that nobody was throwing away his wicket after getting a good start and was converting his 30’s to 50’s and then 50’s to 100’s, they were building 100 run partnerships, bowlers were bowling maiden overs and weren’t giving one or two lose balls in every over. Fielders were neither giving away free runs nor dropping any catches. They were confident in their body language and their approach. They were neither too attacking nor too defensive. More than they were fighting for their place in the squad, they were enjoying the good time on the ground along with each other. And all that was clearly missing in the three series we lost (0-4, 0-4, 1-2) and failed to perform as a team drastically.

After the masterstroke from the master himself in the first test, we saw Dravid and Laxman  playing in one man, Pujara. We saw Gavaskar and Srikanth playing in one man, M Vijay. We saw an inning imitating Bradman, Lara and Sobbers from Shikhar Dhawan. We saw MS Dhoni finally playing to his potential and matching his ideal Gilly. We saw Kohli maturing and learning from his every mistake. We saw Jadeja's accurate and consistent line and length and will wait for him to emerge as one of the best allrounders. We saw Ashwin rediscovering himself and we saw Bhuvi and Ishant waiting eagerly for overseas tours. Only thing which still need to be taken care of is succumbing after losing two settled batsmen and non performing potential tail.

Now where we are glad with our backups in Rahane, Tiwari, Yadav and a total new crop ready to knock at selectors ‘doors, it would be interesting too to see the fightback from Gambhir, Sehwag and Harbhajan if they offer any to come back in national team. After nine months when India will tour SA, we may have lost that winning combination by that time. We may not have few of players due to bad form or injury. We may not have that taste of win as fresh as it is now, but hope our team will not lose these ingredients which are necessary to win the real test of cricket, which they have found after two whitewash and one home series defeat and has given crazy Indian fans a wonderful memory to cherish. 
Simply Arsh